Wednesday, July 22, 2015

Aphrodisiacs? Seriously?

After staying in the house for two weeks fighting the flue, found that my cupboard was almost as bare as that of Old Mother Hubbard’s.

Eventually found in the dark recesses of the cupboard a tin of tomatoes – you can always do something with tomatoes.

In the freezer compartment of the refrigerator discovered a languishing packet of spinach and some peas. Hiding behind them was also a bit of frozen mince.

Actually, I freeze the mince for the stray cat who drops in when his other homes fail him; even though more often than not, he doesn’t eat the mince.

Now and then I am seriously offended by his sitting there looking down his nose at the mince, while mentally shaking his head at my limited abilities to provide.

But most of the time it’s just easier to go to the shop and buy raw chicken breast which he does condescend to eat.

But enough about the cat.

So now armed with my few ingredients I add some pasta and Bob’s your uncle. I’m glad my daughter isn’t here. Firstly, she finds my combination of ingredients odd, and in this case, the colour of my dish is sort of grey green, with bits of red floating around; tasting a lot better than it looks. In my opinion.

Now, you, too might be looking down your nose at my culinary efforts, but if you check the ingredients (Cross out the mince. The cat's probably right.) most of them have been lauded for thousands of years as not only being good for you, but very helpful in the bedroom.

You may laugh. But let me ask you this, who are the fabled masters of the bedroom games? Precisely. The Italians. Absolutely noted for their ability to charm the ladies.  And what is their food of choice? Tomatoes! Check. Onions! Check! Garlic! Check. Yeah, yeah, we'll add the oysters. But don't forget Italy has a lot of water around it, and they like all sorts of sea food. So put a check against sea food - unless you really, really like the oysters. (Yuck) You'll find these foods being touted in some of the oldest love manuals in world history, as foods noted for their helpful properties at intimate partying.

I'm not sure about spinach and the Italians - anyone knows about it, drop me a line - but here's what one modern expert has to say about it:
  
"There have been numerous Japanese studies which have documented the results achieved by spinach as an aphrodisiac, so those who have problems in the bedroom might want to consider eating more of this food on a regular basis." Food Answers And there you have it.

Based on my book 'Honeymoon! A Sizzle or a Fizzle? Prepare Mentally, Physically and Emotionally for the best Time of Your Life.

Tuesday, July 14, 2015

Spelling and Grammar


Now that computers are doing a lot of editing, grammatical and spelling errors are creeping into books, newspapers and even public signs.


 You can’t but notice that ‘whom’ and ‘who’ are now being used interchangeably, while ‘momentarily’, after being hijacked by the Television people who’ve been using it incorrectly ever since, is almost unusable..


And it seems, in the name of economic use of words, nouns are being employed as verbs. There was this award ceremony were sportsmen were medaled (with medals?).


And have you noticed in books that where once upon a time it was ‘he lit his cigarette’ it's now ‘he lighted his cigarette’.


To think we used to correct our children when they’d say, ‘I bited my apple’. Were they already a step ahead of us?


But the other day, as we visited a shopping carpark, there was a public sign that must have been created by a computer.


Because the carpark is so crowded the powers that be have decided to place restrictions on how long you can park your car before having to pay a fee.


It bemuses me, that problems of scarcity are always countered by introducing a fee. Do fees actually create more parking spaces? What sort of equation was used, I wonder.


a. In the past there have not been enough parking spaces for people when this area was predominantly populated by single dwellings of 2 and a half people each

b. By introducing a fee

c. There will be enough parking spots for the increased population generated by many of those single dwellings having been turned into multi storey buildings housing hundreds of people.

I don’t get it. But, as the television advertisement says, ‘That’s why (they) are there, and I’m down here’.

In any case, I digress. About this sign. I would have hardly noticed it, but some outraged grammarian saw the error, and couldn’t help but point it out.
What the sign says
Maximum three hour customer parking
Fee’s apply for Terms and Condition Breaches
And the correction - There is no apostrophe in ‘fees’


Also the type of buildings which are now supplanting single dwellings of two and a half people, but presumably will not affect the parking scarcity if car owners have to pay a fee.


Tuesday, July 7, 2015

Pre Marriage Counselling Service from Trish Cabrero

My name is Trish Cabrero and I am a Psychologist, specialising in relationships. 

I am also a relationships educator offering Pre-marriage Courses to engaged couples intending to marry. 

Research shows that couples that undertake premarriage courses have a significant improvement in their communication skills, conflict management skills and overall greater relationship satisfaction.

I use the validated tool FOCCUS, to identify relationship issues that strengthen the relationship and highlight other issues that may potentially lead to conflict.

These are then discussed between the couple in depth to look at ways to minimise the impact on the relationship prior to marriage. I am often amazed that some topics are never discussed prior to the ceremony and often times there is an assumption that they will work it out later after the wedding. 

My service is different to other pre marriage services as I am able to utilise my extensive experience in the relationship counselling arena to address the identified issues with the couple.

I can also recommend and refer couples to  relationship counselling services if it is indicated. If they choose to explore this with me, that is fine as it saves the couple explaining all the issues in depth. Otherwise, if they prefer I can readily refer them to someone else to assist.

For more information on Pre-Marriage Course and Relationship Counselling please refer to my website 

My practice is located in Ashgrove:

Ashgrove Serviced Offices.
Highpoint Plaza,
240 Waterworks Road,
Ashgrove, Queensland, 4060.
I also offer the ability to conduct the service via Skype. 








Saturday, July 4, 2015

Practical Tips on Running a Profitable Celebrancy Business

This is book was written by an Australia Celebrant for those people who are Celebrants or who are thinking of becoming Celebrants.

 Most people, when the subject of Celebrants come up, immediately think of Marriage Celebrants. Of course to be a Marriage Celebrant you not only need training, you also need to be a legally appointed person.

But you don’t need any specific training or legal appointment to celebrate the many other social events that people like to mark with a special ceremony. Couples celebrating their Wedding Anniversary might like to make a Renewal of Wedding Vows Ceremony part of their celebration.

Parents or the single mother will often introduce their new baby to their family and friends with a Baby Naming Ceremony. More often than not this Ceremony takes place on the baby’s first birthday.

A couple, thinking of getting married overseas, and knowing that most of their relatives and friends won’t be joining them there, might choose to have a Commitment Ceremony for their relatives and friends here before they go overseas for their actual Wedding Ceremony.

Some couples, not quite ready for marriage, but deciding to live together, might also have a Commitment Ceremony before setting up home together. This ceremony is often attractive to the couple with children who want to make the children feel secure and part of this new relationship.

These are only some of the Ceremonies that can be celebrated by the person who has the talent and the interest. How to be a Profitable Celebrant: Practical Tips on Running a Profitable Celebrancy Business will help you to decide whether this business is for you, and then tell you how to run with it.

The book is being sold as an ebook on Amazon and Smashwords. And, while I wrote it with Australian Celebrants in mind, any Celebrant anywhere in the world will find it helpful. As these reviews show.

Book Review - 1st June 2015
This is a great book very well written. If you are thinking about starting any kind of celebrant business buy this book it follows right along with my college course for the most part.

Book Review - 3rd June 2015
Worth every cent! My only complaint about this book is that it only comes in eBook format!!! (I would love a hard copy!) Vlady Peters covers anything and everything it takes to become a profitable (and happy) Celebrant. The book IS Australia-centric, but all material/ideas are easily adjusted to fit American laws, regulations, and standards. I would purchase this book again in a heart-beat!

Appreciate your reviews. This book is being used not only by Celebrants, but also by Celebrant Trainers.